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Can You Come & Go In Assisted Living?

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Assisted living can often be misunderstood, with many envisioning a loss of freedom and independence. However, the reality is far more liberating than one might expect.

The concept of retaining your freedom to come and go as you please is not just a privilege; it’s a fundamental aspect of many assisted living communities

Residents can enjoy a vibrant lifestyle that includes social activities, hobbies, and opportunities for personal growth, all while having access to assistance when needed.

Independence in Assisted Living

Independence in assisted living is all about empowerment. It’s about allowing residents to live life on their own terms while having access to the support they need. For many, the idea of moving into assisted living comes with the fear of losing one’s autonomy.

Yet, modern assisted living communities are designed with a focus on enabling residents to continue living vibrant, self-directed lives.

Freedom to Come & Go

One of the most common misconceptions is that assisted living restricts residents’ movements. Contrary to this belief, most communities offer a high degree of freedom. Residents can come and go as they please, just like they would in their own homes.

This freedom is often a key factor in why many choose assisted living, as it allows them to maintain their usual lifestyle without the burden of household chores or maintenance.

Are There Any Restrictions?

While freedom is a core principle, certain policies are in place to ensure the safety and well-being of everyone in the community. These policies are generally not restrictive but rather protective. For example, residents are usually asked to sign in and out when leaving and returning.

This measure ensures that staff knows who is present in case of emergencies, maintaining a sense of security for all. Other common policies might include guidelines for overnight stays outside the community or attending events that require transportation.

These guidelines are typically discussed during the initial move-in process, ensuring residents and their families understand and agree with the terms.

How Assisted Living Supports Independence

Assisted living communities are structured to support and encourage independence in everyday life. They provide an environment where residents can thrive without the hassle of day-to-day responsibilities. Daily tasks like:

  • Meal preparation
  • Cleaning
  • Laundry

Are taken care of, leaving more time for residents to enjoy life. The support offered by skilled and compassionate staff ensures that residents’ needs are met while allowing them to focus on personal interests and social connections. 

Options for Transportation & Outings

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Transportation can be a significant concern for residents who wish to maintain their independence. Thankfully, many assisted living communities offer transportation services to help residents get to:

  • Medical appointments
  • Shopping trips
  • Social outings

These services are typically scheduled in advance, ensuring residents maintain their active lifestyles. Organized outings are a common feature in assisted living communities.

These outings provide residents with opportunities to explore local attractions, attend cultural events, or simply enjoy a day out with friends.

Social & Family Visits

Residents are encouraged to host family visits and participate in social gatherings both within and outside the community.

Many communities offer spaces for family events, such as holiday gatherings or birthday celebrations, ensuring residents can continue to enjoy these special moments.

Social calendars are often filled with activities, from game nights to concerts, providing ample opportunities for residents to engage with others and form meaningful relationships.

Staying socially active contributes significantly to mental and emotional well-being, reinforcing the sense of independence residents value.

Balancing Independence with Care Needs

Each resident’s needs are unique, and communities are skilled at tailoring support to match these needs. This balance ensures residents receive the assistance they require while preserving their autonomy.

Care plans are typically personalized, focusing on enhancing residents’ strengths and supporting their challenges. This approach helps residents feel valued and respected, contributing to a positive living experience. 

Tips for Finding a Community That Values Flexibility

Choosing the right community can be daunting, but knowing what to look for can help. Key aspects to consider include:

  • The community’s philosophy on independence
  • The range of activities and outings offered
  • The level of personalized care provided

Touring potential communities and speaking with current residents can also provide valuable insights into the daily experience.

Is Assisted Living Right for Your Lifestyle?

Deciding if assisted living is the right choice involves considering personal needs, lifestyle preferences, and future goals. For those seeking a balance between independence and support, assisted living offers a compelling option.

Communities are designed to enhance quality of life, providing the freedom to continue cherished routines while offering peace of mind through available support.

If you’re exploring assisted living, take the time to evaluate what independence means to you and how a community can support your vision.

With the right community, assisted living can be a gateway to new experiences, friendships, and personal growth, all while preserving the autonomy you cherish. Contact us today if you have any questions about assisted living at Peregrine Senior Living.

Services, Events, & Dining Experiences

We strive to serve each resident who calls our community home with meaningful experiences and person-centered care. From innovative services to personalized dining options, we’re here to meet your loved one’s unique needs.

Our Services & Amenities

Our services and amenities are designed to nurture connection, happiness, and comfort. Our residents can spend time with friends in comfortable shared spaces or relax in a beautiful apartment. Our community truly feels like home.

Our Events & Activities

Our events and activities are curated to be safe, inclusive experiences that help our residents make the most of every moment. Our community events include hobby classes, a wide array of organized activities, and regularly scheduled group outings.

Our Restaurant-Style Dining

Our restaurant-style dining features a range of delightful and nutritious meals crafted by our culinary staff. We celebrate each resident’s journey through food and serve residents their favorite dishes.

Visit Peregrine Senior Living Today

Find us among the peaceful surroundings of Lakeview Circle on Route 20 in this culturally and historically rich community.

Our Queen Anne historic building is located just outside the idyllic center of the lakeside Village of Skaneateles.

Visitors are always welcome.

Our Address

  • 150 East Genesee St.
  • Skaneateles, NY 13152

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